"Don't be a Woman who needs a man, Be a Woman a Man needs"
Marriage is the process
by which two people make their relationship public, official, and
permanent. It is the joining of two people in a bond that putatively lasts
until death, because they love each other. However in India it is not a
necessity that the feelings exist prior to the engagement, in many parts it is
considered a sin to choose your life partner, of course this condition mainly
forbids a girl to do so.
In India as soon as a girl turns the legal
age, everyone around her start to think about her marriage. Is getting married
the only goal that a girl in this free country can achieve, what if she wants
to study further or follow her dreams. There was a time when a girl had no say
in the matters concerning her marriage but the parents decided the groom mostly
in childhood itself, Although the
scenario is not as bad as it was back then, there still exist traces of that
belief in some parts of the nation mostly rural.
Every girl dreams of getting married. It’s beautiful, and the feeling of
sharing your life with someone is unique. Getting married is a
once-in-a-lifetime moment and it is a big deal. But like every event in our
lives, right from growing up, learning to walk and finally completing the
transition from a child to an adult, there is a time especially reserved for
getting ready to take the plunge into matrimony. Being forced or forcing
oneself into this life altering phenomena is not at all easy and hence, They deserve
to have all the time in the world to arrive at such big a decision.
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